
Over the stretch of time, the most popular methods by which man has searched for happiness are turning to material satisfaction or searching for God, or that which most people have come to in search for answers during times when questions get to be overwhelming. I’m not sure by whose construct it was that material satisfaction became a polar opposite of God.
On the other hand, there are those who have come up with an organized method by which to scientifically measure happiness. They call it Gross National Happiness (GNH), a different yardstick altogether from Gross National Product (GNP). GNH is an attempt to define quality of life, an intangible concept that cannot be measured like standard of living can. Standard of living is a measurement of economic welfare.
Quality of life is said to have two components: physical and psychological. The physical will entail health, diet, and protection against pain and disease. The psychological aspect means stress, worry, pleasure, and other negative or positive emotions.
Quality of life rests on the benchmark of wellbeing, which, in turn, has been measured as happiness or satisfaction with life. However, wellbeing entails more than living ‘the good life.’ It has also come to suggest having a meaningful and worthwhile life.
By and large, happiness has come to mean, in the modern world, as the confluence of wellbeing and satisfaction.
Gross National Happiness (GNH) comes with a survey that has 7 wellness and satisfaction metrics: economic, environmental, physical, mental, workplace, social, and political. The GNH value is proposed to be an index function of the total average per capita of these measures.
In yet another research by the University of Pennsylvania’s Wharton School of Business and based on global surveys, the findings reveal “a clear positive link” between wealth and “subjective well-being”. The results show that the facts about income and happiness are really simpler to correlate. The three trends that emerged are: rich people are happier than poor people, richer countries are happier than poor countries, and as countries get richer, they tend to be happier.
All these efforts only to go back to the question: “Can you be happy when you’re poor?”
Of course, that question is highly debatable. I’ll keep my answer to that, to myself, in my little corner of the world.
Earlier today, I received a chain email that boasts to have been voted as ‘Best Email of the Year.’ It contained the following pictures and texts:
If you think you are unhappy, look at them.

If you think your salary is low, how about her?

If you think you don’t have many friends...

If you think study is a burden, how about her?

When you feel like giving up, think of this man.

If you think you suffer in life, do you suffer as much as he does?

If you complain about your transport system, how about them?

If your society is unfair to you, how about her?

Enjoy life how it is and as it comes. Things are worse for others and a lot better for us. There are many things in your life that will catch your eye but only a few will catch your heart. Pursue those.
But seriously, happiness is not, yes as Grace succinctly instructs us, measured in money or material wealth. It will take a whole lot of re-education for the average punter-in-the-street to realise that... I think people become attached to their misery, their material bond with artificial happiness anchored as it is upon these external entities and objects...
Long live Happiness. Now, if I could just find where I left my own happiness...
It is a relative concept.
But how come some people are more miserable than others?
It sure does make light the useless material stresses we allow to plague us... but if we really follow the message given by these pictures, then I guess we’d even be more unhappy than we started off...
everyone has to find happiness with themselves and look at others to decide whether or not we are or should be happy with our situations!!
And you’re right, happiness is relative. Some know it at shallow level, while others are so hard to please. Makes one wonder who among them are happier.
I happen to know a lot of people who are rich with no dearth of material comforts and a routine settled life.
Yet happiness seem to elude them.
They only see the half empty part of their life.Saddest part is, they don’t know what is missing...
Your post and the email tells to see the filled part of our lives.:)
I became happiest when I divested myself of many property. When all that was left was a backpack with 2 pairs of jeans and 3 shirts, and some bare essentials, I went to find my happiness.
Of course, that was many moons ago and I’ve added a bit more on my clothing line. LOL!
I dunno.
It is observed that rich are more unhappy due to their poor health, competition from others, maintenance of status etc. etc. But they show off as very happy.
While the poor knows that he is to live like this and enjoys more of his time than the rich. They may look like to be unhappy.
Good insight, Dr.! Thanks for sharing it with us! God bless.
Poor have a rich soul as they overcome adversity everyday and they know how to treasure what they have.
Long time back I remember reading the book ”The Little Prince” where this Prince from another planet has just one rose which he treasures and is bemused that mankind on earth can grow so many roses but they don’t know how to value them.
Who doesn’t want to be happy? Happiness is a choice One has to make personally. It is a state of being only you can create on own. However easy said than done :)
Btw, the map that shows levels of happiness spread across the globe is kinda correct. I did realize this when I came back from my holiday from Down Under. Was wondering how almost everybody out there is so happy and optimistic!
If only that was the case I don’t mind relocating to either ends of our globe.
Count your blessings see what God has done
Count your blessings name them one by one
And you’ll be surprised to see what God has done” -
I remember this nursery rhyme that I learnt when I see the pictures that you received by email!So that’s what being happy is all about.
It’s totally tranquil, yet explosive. :)
In fact people are becoming increasingly crazy about happiness. We set out to search for happiness, we attempt to quantify it but ”the search for happiness is one of the chief sources of unhappiness” as Eric Hoffer said.
And to my view:
Happiness is a decision. If you decide to be happy you will be happy.
We have been tried to be convinced all the time that there is a formula for happiness out there, or that there are methods and tools to achieve it. When, in actuality, all we need is ourself and the decision to choose happiness.
Long live!
Best regards
Robb
My email is gracepcalderon@yahoo.com.ph
I am also waiting for your article on Zimbabwe about who or what can be the catalyst for cataclysm. We have no idea anymore at this point. Still waiting for your analysis there!
And while you’re at it. Please send me too your e-book. I would love to read that. I can’t seem to trace where you wrote your email addy somewhere here.
And since you find yourself at this post,
STAY HAPPY! :)
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