HAPPY!
Grace , Quezon City: Jul 18 2008
Made Popular Jul 19 2008

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Over the stretch of time, the most popular methods by which man has searched for happiness are turning to material satisfaction or searching for God, or that which most people have come to in search for answers during times when questions get to be overwhelming. I’m not sure by whose construct it was that material satisfaction became a polar opposite of God.

On the other hand, there are those who have come up with an organized method by which to scientifically measure happiness. They call it Gross National Happiness (GNH), a different yardstick altogether from Gross National Product (GNP). GNH is an attempt to define quality of life, an intangible concept that cannot be measured like standard of living can. Standard of living is a measurement of economic welfare.

Quality of life is said to have two components: physical and psychological. The physical will entail health, diet, and protection against pain and disease. The psychological aspect means stress, worry, pleasure, and other negative or positive emotions.

Quality of life rests on the benchmark of wellbeing, which, in turn, has been measured as happiness or satisfaction with life. However, wellbeing entails more than living ‘the good life.’ It has also come to suggest having a meaningful and worthwhile life.

By and large, happiness has come to mean, in the modern world, as the confluence of wellbeing and satisfaction.

Gross National Happiness (GNH) comes with a survey that has 7 wellness and satisfaction metrics: economic, environmental, physical, mental, workplace, social, and political. The GNH value is proposed to be an index function of the total average per capita of these measures.

In yet another research by the University of Pennsylvania’s Wharton School of Business and based on global surveys, the findings reveal “a clear positive link” between wealth and “subjective well-being”. The results show that the facts about income and happiness are really simpler to correlate. The three trends that emerged are: rich people are happier than poor people, richer countries are happier than poor countries, and as countries get richer, they tend to be happier.

All these efforts only to go back to the question: “Can you be happy when you’re poor?

Of course, that question is highly debatable. I’ll keep my answer to that, to myself, in my little corner of the world.

Earlier today, I received a chain email that boasts to have been voted as ‘Best Email of the Year.’ It contained the following pictures and texts:

If you think you are unhappy, look at them.

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If you think your salary is low, how about her?

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If you think you don’t have many friends...

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If you think study is a burden, how about her?

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When you feel like giving up, think of this man.

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If you think you suffer in life, do you suffer as much as he does?

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If you complain about your transport system, how about them?

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If your society is unfair to you, how about her?

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Enjoy life how it is and as it comes. Things are worse for others and a lot better for us. There are many things in your life that will catch your eye but only a few will catch your heart. Pursue those.

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Bobette
New Orleans, United States
Excellent one, Grace! Very well written and great photos. I like the map that shows our level of happiness too.
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Thank you, Bobette! Hope you’re happy! I am happy! We’re all happy!
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Geez - all this rampant cheerfulness - Grace - have you been putting over proof Vodka in the party punch here ?

But seriously, happiness is not, yes as Grace succinctly instructs us, measured in money or material wealth. It will take a whole lot of re-education for the average punter-in-the-street to realise that... I think people become attached to their misery, their material bond with artificial happiness anchored as it is upon these external entities and objects...

Long live Happiness. Now, if I could just find where I left my own happiness...
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
My, we’re all happy and spewing platitudes! LOL! Just kidding! This must be the aftermath of the gloomy and brooding discussion on god and war. Hehe...
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Well I always have this nagging thought: Why this mad pursuit of happiness? Happiness doesn’t make sense without the backdrop of misery and sadness.
It is a relative concept.
(Global Perspectives)
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Oh, Madhuri! you hit it bull’s eye! Isn’t that so true! Excuse the cliche but you can never really know happiness unless you’ve gone through its opposite.

But how come some people are more miserable than others?
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Asmita
Shimla, India
After this wonderful article, I’m beginning to think happiness is relative!!

It sure does make light the useless material stresses we allow to plague us... but if we really follow the message given by these pictures, then I guess we’d even be more unhappy than we started off...

everyone has to find happiness with themselves and look at others to decide whether or not we are or should be happy with our situations!!
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Hi Asmita! So nice to see you here. Right, there’s always room for happiness, it’s just up to us to fill the void.

And you’re right, happiness is relative. Some know it at shallow level, while others are so hard to please. Makes one wonder who among them are happier.
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Congrats Grace for another engaging post.
I happen to know a lot of people who are rich with no dearth of material comforts and a routine settled life.
Yet happiness seem to elude them.
They only see the half empty part of their life.Saddest part is, they don’t know what is missing...
Your post and the email tells to see the filled part of our lives.:)
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Madhuri, I guess, happiness is found in that little corner of our hearts that is not beholden to any material comfort or want.

I became happiest when I divested myself of many property. When all that was left was a backpack with 2 pairs of jeans and 3 shirts, and some bare essentials, I went to find my happiness.

Of course, that was many moons ago and I’ve added a bit more on my clothing line. LOL!
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Cultural reflections on materialism...
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
That was a good commentary on it, yeah!
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yeah: ”the third world is just around the corner”...
(Global Perspectives)
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Bobette
New Orleans, United States
”Dont worry, be happy!” ok i dont know the rest of the song
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
LOL! My, my, this is a happy bunch! Well, you know what they say. It’s always clear skies after a storm! or something like that... LOL
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Of course, you know what happened to the guy that sung that song... he died of a massive heart attack. Physician heal thy self, eh ?
(Global Perspectives)
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Who died of heart attack?
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John betterconstructed.co..
Show Low, United States
Happy is as happy does.
I dunno.
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
That’s a Michael Jackson, isn’t it?
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Any one can be happy if he so desires!!

It is observed that rich are more unhappy due to their poor health, competition from others, maintenance of status etc. etc. But they show off as very happy.

While the poor knows that he is to live like this and enjoys more of his time than the rich. They may look like to be unhappy.
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Hello, Dr.! Thanks for the comment. You are right with that observation. The rich, though less happy, manage to come off as denizens of a happy world. While the poor makes do with what he has and is, thus, happy with it.

Good insight, Dr.! Thanks for sharing it with us! God bless.
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Yes, Dr.Saini,
Poor have a rich soul as they overcome adversity everyday and they know how to treasure what they have.
Long time back I remember reading the book ”The Little Prince” where this Prince from another planet has just one rose which he treasures and is bemused that mankind on earth can grow so many roses but they don’t know how to value them.
(Global Perspectives)
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Deepa
mumbai, India
Hey Grace, nice post :) I do come across such mails fwded by friends. And they do manage to knock in a few smiles in the otherwise stressed daily routine.
Who doesn’t want to be happy? Happiness is a choice One has to make personally. It is a state of being only you can create on own. However easy said than done :)
Btw, the map that shows levels of happiness spread across the globe is kinda correct. I did realize this when I came back from my holiday from Down Under. Was wondering how almost everybody out there is so happy and optimistic!
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I get a lot emails like this, too. The fluffy little animal ones are the best, though; and most cheerful.
(Global Perspectives)
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Thanks so much, Deepa! What I noticed with the map is that the happy ones are near the ends of the earth. :):)
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Ok, now I know what to do. I shall henceforth forward to all of you all the chain emails I receive! LOL
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Deepa
mumbai, India
:( is that the default reason that i feel unhappy at times? lol
If only that was the case I don’t mind relocating to either ends of our globe.
(Global Perspectives)
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Deepa, home is where the heart is! Oh, geez, posts like these bring out the best of cliches. LOL
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Happiness and God are two things very similar: only those who believe can see or feel.
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Hi Celso! Nice to see you here. You’re probably Catholic like me. :)
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Leena Komarraju
Kolkata, India
”Count your blessings name them one by one
Count your blessings see what God has done
Count your blessings name them one by one
And you’ll be surprised to see what God has done” -

I remember this nursery rhyme that I learnt when I see the pictures that you received by email!So that’s what being happy is all about.
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Yeah, Leena. It’s something unexplainable really. I dunno...I can’t explain it myself. It’s a sudden stillness and a warm feeling, and a quiet moment of reflection when you get in touch with reality.

It’s totally tranquil, yet explosive. :)
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Thank you Grace for this very interesting and illustrated article!

In fact people are becoming increasingly crazy about happiness. We set out to search for happiness, we attempt to quantify it but ”the search for happiness is one of the chief sources of unhappiness” as Eric Hoffer said.
And to my view:
Happiness is a decision. If you decide to be happy you will be happy.
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Thank you, sir! I believe you when you say that our desperate quest for happiness is what makes the sad journey.

We have been tried to be convinced all the time that there is a formula for happiness out there, or that there are methods and tools to achieve it. When, in actuality, all we need is ourself and the decision to choose happiness.

Long live!
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Robb thebeardedman.blogsp..
Derby, United Kingdom
Grace: Off subject I know, but your comment ”Catalyst for Catclysm” has resulted in a poem from my friend in the USA. He has sent me a copy. Where can I send it and the accompanying audio file?

Best regards

Robb
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Beautiful, Robb! Thank you to you and your friend!

My email is gracepcalderon@yahoo.com.ph

I am also waiting for your article on Zimbabwe about who or what can be the catalyst for cataclysm. We have no idea anymore at this point. Still waiting for your analysis there!

And while you’re at it. Please send me too your e-book. I would love to read that. I can’t seem to trace where you wrote your email addy somewhere here.

And since you find yourself at this post,

STAY HAPPY! :)
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Jaiyant Cavale
Bangalore, India
Hi Grace! A post which makes us all smile and not rue over senseless wars and DV! Well I must say I do feel snug sometimes in my flat, in the torn seats of my car, and the chocolate and the beer which I can afford but many can’t.. a refreshing post to read on a Sunday morning like today.. :)