The Unbearable Lightness of Insignificance
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Grace , Quezon City: Jul 23 2008
Made Popular Jul 24 2008

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Development work can be excruciating. One will traverse leech-infested rivers to reach towns, as well as walk 8 kilometers up a mountain to get to an isolated village. These instances can be depicted. Most defy description.

The mandate of development work is changing the fate of people. No matter how much tome you turn over, that’s the bottom line.

Years of doing this kind of work afford me one conclusion: fate plays a major role in the significance one can have in life. Unoriginal, but true. Fate is the invisible chain that imprisons potential.

I, however, do not refer to fate as that which is written in the stars. If you’ve been to where I’ve been, you’d come to know stars from the vantage point of the gutter.

The people I’ve met are those whose fate has been handed down to them, not from the movements of celestial bodies or the great unknown, but by the machinations of those who are on, yes, equally unreachable heights.

It shapes the lives and continues to dictate the state of this people’s future, as well as of their progeny’s future. Defying it is a concept that is not even known to them. What they know is that one cannot really budge from where one is.

This fate, however, has bound them to a lifetime of insignificance, making them resigned to the dustbin of mediocrity. Their milieu is exactly what Aesop meant when he said “Our insignificance is often the cause of our safety.”

The ignorant mother in a coastal town who doesn’t know what television is because the place she has known all her life has never had electricity is safe from the global fear and paranoia of economic recession. What she knows is contentment because the sea has provided enough thus far. And the sun will rise tomorrow, anyway. And the fruit on the branch will fall, anyway.

If you’re fated to be insignificant, then, by all means, you are.

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Potential is a word that comes from the middle class, the affluent, and the civil society.

Maybe, all these efforts in development work to make people realize that they have a potential to achieve might just be disturbing the order of things in their universe. Life in the islands was peaceful and relationships were in better accord when the people were using alibata, an indigenous form of writing. Now, they have to memorize 26 letters in the English alphabet and learn syntax that is not only alien to them, but eventually useless. They are not about to get the chance to leave the island.

Just as Western colonizers were intrusive on our culture, so are we now who are really nothing but puppets of development whose tenets have been formed outside of these islands. We teach people to aspire to ideals that are benchmarked in the West.

We define happiness and contentment for them. We play the spinner of fate and hand them down our definition of potential. We fail to see that, in their ignorance, they are truly happy.

There is stillness in the sea, and it exists precisely for only that. And development workers such as me only disturb this stillness.

There are those who can and will be significant, as well as those who will forever remain inconsequential. And somewhere in between are those, like me, who persist to be a spinner of fate and move the forces of nature so that the lives of the trivial ones escape irrelevance, not knowing that there is a place under the heavens for us all.

Looking at the vastness of the ocean in this coastal fishing village, I conclude that I belong to those who are truly ignorant.

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Aesop meant when he said “Our insignificance is often the cause of our safety.”


...and the cause of bliss, as they say...

A good article, informative and appropriate links and mucho grande humanity, as we have come to expect from you, Grace.
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of ignorance, that is... in relation to bliss...
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Graeme, maybe knowing too much is a curse? :) Ignorance can be a safety zone, as we have seen.

I don’t know which is more painful, witnessing and knowing or chronicling and learning...
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This is gem of a piece of writing, Grace.
We all are small links in this great chain of humanity. Never really knowing how significant the insignicant existence and effort can be...
LOL
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Thanks, Madhuri!

I’m starting to think that significance is directly proportional to attention one gets. LOL
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Asmita
Shimla, India
Reality truly bites... but since each has his own, we really cannot say who is or isnt insignificant...

If you judge from a global POV no one really is that significant not even the US president who epitomizes power but probably would be rendered useless without his advisers!! Not everyone has to be in the mainstream to be ”important”...

I feel the ”insignificant” lot are still better off than the rest of us since they aren’t corrupted by the paranoias that plague the rest of us!!
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
I feel your wrath, Asmita! :)

Because of what you said, I’m now wondering if Medvedev brushed his teeth last night, or if Bush didn’t forget the bottle of peanut butter on his last round of groceries.

:)
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Nishi Roy
Bangalore, India
Nice writeup Grace.
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Thanks for the compliment, Nishi!
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Prince Campbell
New York, United States
Very thought provoking article! And I loved the links!
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Thanks you, Prince! :)
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Thank you, Prince! :)
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Fariha Jamil
Lahore, Pakistan
Its a painting in writing!

I love the right up as well as the images Grace ;)
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Thanks so much, Fariha! I’ll never forget this, ’painting in writing.’ You are very generous. :)
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Fariha Jamil
Lahore, Pakistan
And you are a humble soul, great to find you here :)
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Jaiyant Cavale
Bangalore, India
Significance is relative. The most significant person in my life was a cat who was my first ’best friend’. I was 5.
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
You must have also been the cat’s significant other. :)
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Jaiyant Cavale
Bangalore, India
Oh yes.. I sure was. I was so significant to her that she wouldn’t drink milk unless I poured in the saucer myself. Well actually that is a lie. She would help herself to all the milk in the house
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
LOL. You taught her well. She must have adored you, alright!
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Jaiyant Cavale
Bangalore, India
I’m told I have a way with cats...
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Jaiyant Cavale
Bangalore, India
Or maybe the cats have a way with me...
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I have cats. I think they probably have their way with you but like to let you think that you have your way with them. That is cats’ way. :)
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Jayashree
bangalore, India
For once, it’s true, Grace. He has a way with cats. His alter ego is feline.

Awesome read, Grace!
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Grace
Quezon City, Philippines
Thanks, Jayashree.

And thanks also to all the cats that found their way in this story about the sea that teems with fish.

:)
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